Family Rituals

Birth Rituals

 
         

 

 

infant at birth

The birth rituals of religions and ancient humans were and are of vital importance to the family and the community. They were the group recognition of the presence of a new member of the family and the community. Even though the child is unaware of this ceremony and its meaning, it was and is in the long run a very important ceremony for the infant and the family. It is a recognition that the child is now a member of a family and a community. The family and the community rejoice in the birth of this new entrant to the world and specifically its place in the life of the family and the community. The family and the community are reminded that the raising of this infant into adulthood is the responsibility of all who come in contact with him/her. It evokes a sense of responsibility and commitment to the mental and physical health of the infant on the part of the parents, siblings, close relatives and the community in which the family lives. In religious ceremonies it involved the baptizing of the infants with water (a thoroughly fitting symbol since the infant was surrounded by water in its mother's womb; composes a large percent of the infant's cell composition; will be used for bathing, recreation, and as a source of life in its diet) in the Christian and pre-Christian religions. The birth rituals emphasize the holding and nurturing of the infant in this new and strange world as it has left the safety and comfort of the womb.

 

 

 

 

CEREMONY  FOR   THE  NAMING  OF:

                                                                        

SON/DAUGHTER OF                                               

            DATE:                                                         

Grandparents: Blessed is he/she who comes in the name of God.

 

God and Creator, happy parents have come into Your presence to voice the longings of their hearts in prayer. Give them the wisdom to teach their child to be faithful to the goodness of humanity, that he/she may grow up with the knowledge that You are always near him/her, guiding and sustaining him/her. Keep open the eyes of his/her spirit, that he/she may ever be conscious of the beauty and wonder of Your world. And let him/her learn to love the goodness that is in man and woman, that he/she may ever nourish the goodness that has been implanted within him/her. Though none can escape sorrow and pain, we humbly ask for him/her the courage to face evil, the faith to transcend it, and the strength to subdue it. Grant him/her health of mind and strength of body, that he/she may enjoy fullness of years and live to do Your will in faithfulness. Amen.

 

Blessed is the Lord our God, Ruler of the universe, whose love and kindness extend to all the world.

Mother:   We have been blessed with the gift of new life. We have shared love and pain and joy in bringing our son/daughter into life and have been privileged to participate in the marvel and beauty of creation.

 

Father:    By the way in which we live, we aspire to teach our son/daughter to become a caring and loving person. We hope that in seeking to fulfill him/herself, he/she will also accept his/her responsibilities to others and to his/her heritage. We dedicate ourselves to the creation of a nourishing home and to a life of compassion for others, hoping that our son/daughter will grow to cherish and emulate these ideals.

 

Father & Mother: Praised are You, O Lord our God, Source of Life, who causes parents to rejoice with their children.

 

Expectant Mother & daughter

 

All Assembled:

Praised are you, O Lord our God, King of the Universe, Creator of the Mystery of creation.

 

Praised are you, O Lord, Our God, King of the Universe, Creator of Everything for your Glory.

Praised are you, O Lord, Our God, King of the Universe, Creator of Humanity.

 

Praised are you, O Lord, our God, King of the Universe, who created human beings in your image after your likeness, and out of their very selves You prepared for them a perpetual spiritual being. Praised are You, Lord, Creator of Humanity.

 

Praised are you, O Lord, our God King of the Universe, who has such as these, your creatures in your world.

 

 

Grandfather: Our God and God of all generations, we are grateful for new beginnings; for the bond of new life that links one generation to another. Thankful for the blessings of family, for the love and care that brings meaning and happiness to our lives, we rejoice with our children at the birth of their child, our grandchild.

 

Grandmother: May they grow together as a family in health and in strength, in harmony, wisdom and love, their home filled with words of compassion and acts of kindness.

 

May we be enabled to share in the joy of seeing this child grow into adulthood, a blessing to his/her family, his/her people and all humanity.

 

Mother:  Joyful, I bring my son/daughter into humanity=s covenant: with God, with knowledge, and with life:

 

Blessed is the Lord, our God, Ruler of the Universe, Who has sanctified us through the creation of life, and asked us to bring up our son/daughter with a sensitivity to the needs of other humans.

 

 

Father:       Blessed is the Lord, whose presence gives light to all the world.

 

Gives thanks to the Lord, who is good, whose love is everlasting.

 

This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.

 

Unison:  Blessed is the Lord, Ruler of the Universe, Creator of the fruit of the vine.

 

Blessed is the Lord, Ruler of the Universe, for giving us life, for sustaining us, and for enabling us to reach this hour of joy.

 

 

Grandfather #2: O Lord, blessed be this hour when we again open our hearts to glorify Your name for Your divine wisdom and kindness. Today we celebrate the coming into humanity of a new son/daughter. You have given to our grandson/granddaughter, the potential for greatness upon the earth. May you bless this house with health, happiness, and contentment so that all the members of our families be able to serve You. May he/she grow in vigor of mind to become an intelligent and informed human being; and may he/she happily attain a life a of good deeds. Amen.

Father & Infant

Grandmother #2: Every person born into this world represents something new, something that never existed before, something original and unique. It is the duty of every person in Israel to know and consider that he/she is unique in the world in his/her particular character... for if there had been someone like him/her there would have been no need for him/her to be in this world. Thus, he/she is called upon to fulfill his/her particularity in this world.

Aunt:       Psalm 8:

O Lord, Our Lord, How majestic is Your name throughout the earth, You who have covered the heavens with Your splendor! From the mouths of infants and sucklings You have founded strength on account of Your foes, to put an end to enemy and avenger. When I behold Your heavens, the work of Your fingers, the moon and stars that You set in place. what is man that You have taken note of him, that You have made him little less than divine, and adorned him with glory and majesty; You have made him master over Your handiwork, laying the world at his feet. The sheep and oxen, all of them, and wild beasts, too; the birds of the heavens, the fish of the sea, whatever travels the paths of the seas. O Lord, our Lord, how majestic is Your name throughout the earth!

Mother and infant

Mother:   When we encircle him/her with love, he/she will learn to be loving.

Father:    When we are thankful for life=s blessings, he/she will learn to be thankful.

Mother:   When we express friendliness, he/she will learn to be friendly.

Father:    When we speak words of praise, he/she will learn to praise others.

Mother:   When we set an example of honesty, our son/daughter will learn to be honest.

Father:    When we practice patience, he/she will learn to be patient.

Mother:   When we confront misfortune with courage, he/she will gain the strength to face adversity.

Father:    When we live with faith and hope, our son/daughter will grow to welcome each new dawn without fear.

 

 

Grandmother #2: A human artist draws a figure on a wall. Can he possibly draw the same figure on water? But the Holy One, Blessed be He, creates a fetus in the womb of its mother C in water itself! Thus it is said, AThere is no artist like our God!@ A human artist paints the human form and must use many colors ...But the Holy One, Blessed be He, creates a human being from a single drop!

Thus it is said, AThere is no artist like our God!.@


A human artist fashions the human form, his creation cannot create others; but the Holy One, Blessed be He, fashions human beings who in turn bring others into the world!

Thus it is said, AThere is no artist like our God!@

In contemplating such artistry, we contemplate a miracle. He/she is a miracle of renewal, a new start, a new opportunity. The cycle of life continues: therefore, we, a community in the gathering of the peoples, give this child the name __________________________________________________________.

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Unison:   God of all life, sustain this child and let him/her be known in among us as son/daughter of                                                ________________________ & ________________________.                                       

May the father rejoice in his offspring and the mother be glad with her son/daughter. May they teach him/her through word and deed the meaning of the a successful life.  Praise to the Lord for He is good; His mercy endures forever.

May this child,                                                   , grow into adulthood as a blessing to his/her family and humanity.

Father:    May God bless us and keep us.

May God be with us and be gracious unto us. May God show you kindness and give us peace.

Mother:  Source of all life, our hearts are filled with joy for the life which has been entrusted to us. Not with words alone shall we voice our thanks, but with our striving to rear our child with love and understanding and tender care.

Father:       Bestow Your blessing on our child, that he/she may grow in strength of body, mind and spirit. May he/she learn to love all that is good and beautiful and true, to be a blessing to society and a joy to him/herself. May our child find his/her way in the paths of life and by learning how to do good deeds. Give us, O God, the wisdom, courage, and faith that we as parents shall need to raise our child to be human and humane being, a strong and happy person. Amen.

 

  brother & baby  

 

For other birth (naming) rituals, go to the following web sites:

http://paganwiccan.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?site=http%3A%2F%2Frampant-griffon.net%2Fpaganplace%2Ffamily%2Fnaming.html

 

 

A beautiful parable of the meaning of life is found at the following website, which compares life to a train ride:

 

http://pixiesplace.com/trainride http://pixiesplace.com/trainridelife is a trainride